I just understood this: "I thought if the feeling was there I must make myself available." It's what we women do, did. I don't know if young women do that now. But I do know that if a boy/man looked at me, I suddenly was there for it. Is this common? It feels pathological.
We were taught to look out for princes and often lost / lose ourselves in their finding.
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I just understood this: "I thought if the feeling was there I must make myself available." It's what we women do, did. I don't know if young women do that now. But I do know that if a boy/man looked at me, I suddenly was there for it. Is this common? It feels pathological.
I think it’s very common among my generation anyway (I’m 52), and societal. A product of the patriarchy.
Same. 54. I have a friend who is 35 and it already feels so different for her and I'm so glad. So many sleepless nights wondering....
The things we did 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🤣😂and lived to tell