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Sally Jupe's avatar

Love reading your diaries Eleanor. They always make me think about what I could write because you make so much of your 'everyday' so interesting with the fewest of sentences and intricate details. And yet, in each post there is a 'whole' 7 days where we do 'live' through your eyes and senses and which I can resonate and relate to from my world. Thanks. Hope you're better.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Love that you come with me in the reading - I find the practice of it, observing, observing and then writing what I remember without notes, really useful.

Rona Maynard's avatar

Not everyone gets the chance to extricate chewing gum from a teenager’s hair on a speeding train. Maybe the rest of us need to carry scissors and seek out proximity to teenagers. A wonderful moment, to live and to read.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

It was a beautiful moment in time 😊

Kelly Thompson TNWWY's avatar

Love this rambling amid the graveyard, the trains, roads, zoom, and in your kitchen. You always bring a breath of fresh air.

Emily Charlotte Powell's avatar

I have never been a fan of creepy underground car parks - and even less so since reading a short fiction by Sally Reid a little while ago! But grave yards and empty churches and glorious libraries, well - that’s another matter all together.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

creepy underground carparks are the worst.

Holly Starley's avatar

I can't tell you how much I love that you were the one with scissors and that they were the scissors they were.

I have, at various points, in my life been the one with the random things people need tucked into a pocket here a zippered compartment there. Less so these days--unless of course we're somewhere near to where the van is parked. And then I most likely have whatever it is you need on hand.

✂️💛

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

It was one of life’s beautiful moments ✂️💛

Melissa Forsyth's avatar

Thanks Em I ould feel that hot heat of sickness arriving UGH Hoping you feel better now xoxoxox

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Thanks doll. xx

Michele Howarth's avatar

Next time we meet, remind me to tell you how I am *virtually* a Brontë…

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Ah ha! Of course you are. Good. Can’t wait to hear. xx

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Ah ha! Of course you are. Good. Can’t wait to hear. (and so nice to hang out. You strongly reminded me of my friend Melissa, same planet xx)

Rob Devaney's avatar

This is brilliant Eleanor 👏 💖

Kimberly Warner's avatar

Oh Eleanor, so much love and longing and intrigue hiding inside your moments. This one said especially tugged on me:

…one lonely chestnut leaning for its friends in the distance. I am against postwar crop farming methods. I am saying that for the record. There’s no need to till the soil or rip oaks away from each other. As we sped towards Crewe and Churchill’s cry to dig for your country laid out a tattered land of fences and fertiliser I wondered how long it would take for human’s to recognise en masse that we can talk to trees.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Yes, and thanks. It never fails to make me rant and cry. (Also just noticed a pesky apostrophe grr, will correct! #Iambadatgrammer 😂)

Kay's avatar

You paint what you observe so beautifully, Eleanor.

I can see and feel the lonely chestnut leaning for its friends in the distance. Your writings are always a trove of such vivid images and insightful commentary.

I love reading them.

Internal correction. I like that phrase.Useful ability to remember I have found!

I hope you are feeling better now.

Willow Stonebeck's avatar

These diaries are always so damn enjoyable to read.

I wonder if you pulled a Hemingway, meaning changing names and some plot details but basically writing autofiction and calling it a novel, if you wouldn’t maybe take over the world.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Hmm. Thanks Willow. It’s a thought. Imagine. Maybe I’ll try that for the next novel and see what happens. *takes over world. Willow credited in acknowledgements 😊❤️

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Hmm. Thanks Willow. It’s a thought. Imagine…

Elaine R. Frieman's avatar

🫶🏻

Andrew Wille's avatar

Quite a rich trip all round and lovely to read about - and you loved it too! I gather we are a fierce minority of defenders of that film. Could quibble about this or that in the pacing and plot later but during the actual movie I was FULLY immersed, and that is a primary reason I love going to the pictures.

By contrast - don’t start me on Hamnet 👀 Not that one has to compare but we saw them in proximity and at the same cinema and maybe even sitting in the same seats and. And and and.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

I really loved it. Emerald Fennel seems to draw a rare kind of hater toward her, for what? Her theatricality? Her fast and loose with text? She understands the impact of the big screen and uses every inch. I dream of her taking one of my novels and transforming it like this.

Andrew Wille's avatar

I think it’s hostility to posh - there is an accusation of privilege in many of the criticisms I’ve seen. Auteurship judged by the maker rather than the style of what’s made. I loved Saltburn too. I found a lot of humour in both, and a sense of DARING and flamboyance. Tbh I didn’t care about loyalty to the source text - it was very much about making the film its own thing.

The film I should LOVE to see her make is Madame Bovary (fave classic novel).

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Oh YES Mdm B - she would do wonders. And those I know whose job it is to translate to the screen know that medium grants new and original life. To her credit, this is what Maggie O’ F said about the film version of Hamnett.

Andrew Wille's avatar

Update: watched Oliver! last night. Now, *there* is a great adaptation!

Also: what musical should Emerald Fennell make?

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

It’s got to be Cabaret, hasn’t it?

Andrew Wille's avatar

But didn’t she also write the screenplay 😬

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Oh (retreats from last comment into hedge)

Andrew Wille's avatar

I guess that’s self-translation then! And what I felt were the limits of the film were there in the book too.

Adaptations are so interesting. I often find the ones I enjoy least are the ones that are slavish in their devotion, and the ones I enjoy most take more liberties.

roytwilliams's avatar

Ditto, Sally. That Spanish Opera composer (whatever his name was) said once: give me a shopping list, and I'll set it to music. You too. :) Brilliant.

Feasts and Fables's avatar

I really enjoy these, reminders of that wonderful word ‘sonder’ and the lives that carry on in parallel to our own. Adore your observations, a skill I would love to refine. We see those other lives through our lens without ever knowing them through the living of their moments. Fascinating. I wrote a short fiction about it. I’m drawn to those entangled moments. Anyhoo, sorry about the travel sickness. Barley sugar and sitting on newspaper worked for my daughter way way back in the day. Thank you for sharing your daily doings. Take care.

Eleanor Anstruther's avatar

Barley Sugar and Sitting on Newspaper is the title of my next novel. Top advice.

Feasts and Fables's avatar

(Curtsies) … you’re very welcome! And I’m pre-ordering that! ~B

roytwilliams's avatar

"entangled moments" - love it / them.

'Sonder'?

Feasts and Fables's avatar

I do hope you’ll forgive me hooking my own work in as an answer … no need to read the flash fiction but there’s a definition up front. I love the realisation that there’s a word for it!

https://justwriteright.substack.com/p/its-a-sonderful-life

roytwilliams's avatar

Thanks for the link. Superb.

However ... as an apprentice speaker of Afrikaans (actually 'Kaaps' but that's a long story, and it is full of references to Adam Small's work), 'sonder' in Kaaps/Afrikaans means 'without' or 'absence' - which resonates with the coffee-shop story (for me) about the stains (of life?) that stubbornly don't fade and are not amenable to cleaning.

Reminds me too of something I recently wrote (in draft):

It’s an odd thing about ghosts / memoires ...

sometimes people / characters / spirits

fuse / split apart / re-fuse

of their own ‘accord’

like Charl / Charles / Charlie / Charl / – what a dance!

Respect (with tears on the side) . /..

There are so many ‘twins’ in these stories . /..

They leak ... gloriously ... all over ... Just Dance!

(From a longer piece, "Sometimes I can see, quite clearly" ...)

Feasts and Fables's avatar

Language is endlessly fascinating. And you play with it very well in your short piece … Charles Dance et al!