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Lor's avatar
May 3Edited

At the very heart of this intense conversation, I find that I desperately need to understand Dylan’s point of view, born from experience this life has given him. Listening, learning, I feel as though this is the one and only opportunity to understand. How each of us processes this conversation becomes a visceral and physiological response. It is interesting to think that Dylan changes how we think and feel, with every answer he gives. And at the same time, ALS has not robbed him of his ability to think, to learn and to love. We are learning from each other. And I for one, am honored to listen in , and learn the lessons that will last a lifetime.

“The sun is always shining above the clouds”

Indeed.

Thank you ,Eleanor for finding a way for us to begin to understand, through the questions you have selected . And Kimberly, for never losing your connection with Dylan regardless of the difficult circumstances over time. You shine ever brighter throughout this entire relationship . And please give a gracious thank you to Dylan for allowing us in. To Vikki, proof that there are angels among us.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Thank you for your vulnerable, open heart, Eleanor. Your willingness to be seen in your longing to understand, to feel, to honor — it’s deeply touching. I’ve been fortunate to sit beside Dylan through many of these “silent” but powerful conversations, and they never fail to shift something bedrock in those who dare to listen. To witness his first essay in 2019 for the Unfixed docuseries slowly, quietly, blossom into a book seven years later — and now this conversation — has been a long, intimate journey. I'm tired, but full.

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